SITTING in the passenger seat of her boyfriend’s car, JoJo scanned the front of the vehicle while he had not yet reached the driver’s seat.
She did not notice anything unusual until she pulled down the passenger visor mirror and spotted some prints on it.
The 21-year-old shared a video on her TikTok page, ‘joiederouen,’ which captured her discovery of a collection of strange small circles on the mirror.
Upon closer inspection, she realised the prints appeared to be small circles from an Octobuddy phone accessory.
These specific phone accessories are available either as a phone case or a sticker that can be attached to the back of a phone.
They enable the phone to be stuck to a surface, allowing the user to easily utilise the front camera to take pictures or videos of themselves.
The video, which has amassed 11.7 million views, featured text that read: “Crazy because this is how I found out about the other girl.”
The video currently has over 685,000 likes and 3,677 comments.
Many viewers rushed to the comments section to share their thoughts and similar experiences.
One person wrote: “12am in the morning I couldn’t sleep, his phone kept dinging… wasn’t unusual, his job calls him at all hours… this time my gut told me to look.”
To which someone else replied: “Your situation is so close to mine. I could have so many friends here to share stories with!
“Mine also gets called and texts all hours and has to leave.”
Another commenter revealed how they had uncovered the truth from a subtle clue in the car.
They said: “I found out because the passenger seat was moved and I’m the only one that sits there. Well, I thought I was.”
A third simply remarked: “Women’s intuition ain’t no joke.”
Meanwhile, a fourth wrote: “Mine said her name while he was sleeping, lied when I asked why he was saying that name, and then found the messages in his work phone in Microsoft Teams.”
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Someone else added: “I signed into his fb messenger and watched him have a conversation with another girl.”
However, another commenter offered advice, saying: “Look up Maria Felix, what she said 50 years ago: ‘If you’re going to investigate your man, you will always find something.
“‘But don’t bother investigating him if you’re not going to leave him.’”
Four red flags your partner is cheating
Private Investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs your partner might be cheating.
They start to take their phone everywhere with them
In close relationships, it’s normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones, if their phone habits change then they may be hiding something.
Aaron says: “If your partner starts changing their passwords, starts taking their phone everywhere with them, even around the house or they become defensive when you ask to use their phone it could be a sign of them not being faithful.”
“You should also look at how they place their phone down when not in use. If they face the phone with the screen facing down, then they could be hiding something.”
They start telling you less about their day
When partners cheat they can start to avoid you, this could be down to them feeling guilty or because it makes it easier for them to lie to you.
“If you feel like your partner has suddenly begun to avoid you and they don’t want to do things with you any more or they stop telling you about their day then this is another red flag.”
“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be tough, remembering all of your lies is impossible and it’s an easy way to get caught out,” says Aaron.
Their libido changes
Your partner’s libido can change for a range of reasons so it may not be a sure sign of cheating but it can be a red flag according to Aaron.
Aaron says: “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but on occasions, they may also have more sex at home, this is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will start to introduce new things into your sex life that weren’t there before.”
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and to them, it will feel good, this can cause tension and anxiety within themselves which they will need to justify.
“To get rid of the tension they feel inside they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and they will become critical of you out of nowhere. Maybe you haven’t walked the dog that day, put the dishes away or read a book to your children before bedtime. A small problem like this can now feel like a big deal and if you experience this your partner could be cheating,” warns Aaron.
