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Exactly why your brain won’t shut up at night – and the quick and simple way to shush it

EVER feel ready to keel over from tiredness, only for your thoughts to start racing as soon as your head meets the pillow?

As your brain bounces from one topic to the next – the email or text you forgot to reply to, a conversation you handled badly, an embarrassing encounter from five years ago – it can feel impossible to shut it up so you can get some much needed sleep.

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Plagued by a cycle of negative thoughts as soon as your head hits the pillow? This is called rumination[/caption]

According to psychologists, this cyclone of repetitive negative thoughts and excessive worry is called rumination or mental perturbance.

For many of us, this pattern of thinking – dwelling on mistakes, negative feelings and distress – is not even conscious.

Psychologists say it can impact your mental health and also intensify symptoms if you already live with depression or anxiety.

But it can happen to anyone, especially if you’re feeling overwhelmed or like life isn’t quite going your way.

If your brain starts going at 100 miles per hour when you’re desperately trying to snooze, there might be a way to tame your errant thoughts.

Called ‘cognitive shuffling’, it involves visualising random images to help you drift off.

It sounds deceptively simple, but psychologist Dr Luc Beaudoin says it mimics what your brain does naturally when you’re drifting off and you’re not quite conscious but not asleep either – a picture show of unrelated images that slowly lull you to sleep.

“We want your brain to be thinking different things because as you naturally fall asleep, that’s what the brain does,” the adjunct professor at Simon Fraser University in Canada told BBC Science Focus.

It may also help get your spiralling thoughts in check, giving them some structure, so you won’t stray to thinking about stressful topics – like your mortgage.

The hack has recently made its rounds on social media.

While many trends that cycle through TikTok and Instagram aren’t the most legit, with some users claim the mental exercise helps distract them from stressful thoughts keeping them awake.

Here’s how it works, according to Dr Beaudoin.

He told BBC Science Focus: “It basically gets you to imagine things one after another.

“One way to do that is to pick a word, any word, like the word ‘piano’.

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Cognitive shuffling similar to counting sheep but less repetitive[/caption]

“Now, imagine a piano for five to six seconds, maybe touching it or playing it, even if you don’t know how.

“Then, we’re going to spell the word piano and for each letter, we’re going to come up with as many associations with each letter as we can.”

So for ‘piano’, you’d try and think of as many words starting with the latter ‘P’ as you can – parakeet, pilot, pumpkin, powder puff, pooch, and so on.

Dwell on each image for a few seconds and imagine yourself interacting with it before moving onto the next, until you run our of words starting with ‘P’.

The best sleep routine and environment

Thomas Høegh Reisenhus, TEMPUR® sleep specialist & sleep counsellor, reveals the key components of a good bedtime routine and environment...

A sure-fire way to facilitate a better night’s sleep is to practice good sleep hygiene.

Establish a sleep routine that works for you and stick to it. 

This will help your body establish a consistent, natural sleep-wake cycle which can do wonders for your overall sleep quality. 

As such, try to avoid making up for lost sleep with a lie-in. 

Instead of sleeping in, spend your morning reading a book in bed or having a leisurely coffee in the kitchen.

Ensure that your bedroom, bedding, and sleepwear are fit for purpose too. 

The ideal sleep environment is dark, quiet, and cool – much like a cave. 

If you find unwelcome sources of light are keeping you up, consider investing in an eye mask or black-out curtains.

Adding soft furnishings can be a great way to reduce noise, with the surfaces having an absorptive quality, but if this doesn’t work, consider embracing a soothing soundtrack to block it out.

In terms of temperature, try to keep your bedroom at 18°C. You can further reduce the risk of waking up due to overheating by ensuring that all your bedding and sleepwear is made with natural, breathable materials such as cotton and linen.

Bear in mind that everyone is different; what might work for most, may not work for you! 

Whilst knowing how much sleep you should get, how to overcome common barriers, and practicing good sleep hygiene can facilitate a great night’s sleep, if you continue to struggle with sleep or fatigue persistently, do not hesitate to visit a doctor or health professional for support.

After that, go through words starting with ‘I’, then ‘A’.

Hopefully you won’t make it all the way to ‘O’, as the idea is that you’ll fall asleep long before you get to the end.

At a glance, cognitive shuffling technique may sound similar to the concept of counting sheep’.

But Dr Beaudoin said focusing on the same object over and over might be too repetitive and precise, preventing your mind from truly resting.

He told Women’s Health that he first came up with the concept as an undergraduate student studying cognitive psychology in 1989.

He was struggling with insomnia and claimed the method helped him, but he didn’t become formally studying the cognitive shuffling technique as a researcher until about 2009.

The technique is one part of a broader theory of sleep onset that Dr Beaudoin has developed, called ‘somnolent information processing’.

The idea describes a kind of control system for sending yourself to sleep and lists factors that help smooth this process as well as some that hinder it.

Dr Beaudoin has run a number of pilot tests on cognitive shuffling, but wants do more research in comparing the technique with other cognitive strategies used to help people get to sleep.

“We’ve had encouraging results, but we need to do more studies,” he told Science Focus.

“And it’s important to emphasise that no cognitive treatment, including the cognitive shuffle, is expected to be used in isolation.”

Making sure you’re following other science-backed recommendations for better sleep is also important, he added.

No amount of shuffling will undo the effects a coffee or heavy meal right before bed, the psychologist noted.

Experts also told Women’s Health that cognitive shuffling remains a theory, not a proven practice, and that more research needs to be done on it

Cognitive shuffling Dos and Don'ts

Here are some pointers to give the technique a go yourself:

  • DO set yourself some guidelines to ensure that you don’t go off daydreaming up a whole story. Try thinking of all the words you can that start with the same letter before switching to another.
  • DON’T just think of a word, visualise it. Fully imagine the piano, how it feels and sounds, rather than just picturing the word to slow your brain down a bit.
  • DO make yourself the star of the show. Visualise yourself playing and touching the piano.
  • DO know when to ask for help. If you regularly have trouble sleeping, experts say it may be time to put the technique to bed and call in a doctor.

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Is Jazz’s Lauri Markkanen playing vs. Trail Blazers? Latest injury update

The Utah Jazz will host the Portland Trail Blazers on Monday night at Delta Center. Lauri Markkanen is questionable on the team’s injury report due to lower back soreness. Here’s everything we know about Markkanen’s injury and playing status vs. the Trail Blazers. *Watch NBA games LIVE with fuboTV (Get Access | Save $30)* Lauri […]

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Dolphins 3-round 2025 NFL Mock Draft with trades, according to PFN simulator

The Miami Dolphins had a wildly disappointing 8-9 2024 campaign after spending last offseason as a trendy AFC East champion pick. Now, it’s back to the drawing board, and a big part of that will be the 2025 NFL Draft. So, let’s see what the Pro Football Network mock draft simulator says the Dolphins do […]

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Why Oilers must keep Evan Bouchard amid looming Connor McDavid contract

The Edmonton Oilers are in the midst of another great season and looking for that elusive Stanley Cup. After losing in Game 7 of the Cup Final last year, they are looking to keep this core together to get them over the hump. They signed Leon Draisaitl to a record-breaking extension that kicks in this […]

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NBA rumors: Kevin Garnett to return to Timberwolves after franchise sale

The future of the Minnesota Timberwolves franchise has been up in the air for the past couple of months, with owner Glen Taylor engaging in a feud with prospective buyers Marc Lore and Alex Rodriguez over the potential sale of the team. However, it seems like Lore and Rodriguez are closing in on purchasing the […]

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Timberwolves vs. Thunder prediction, odds, pick, spread – 2/24/2025

The Minnesota Timberwolves are on the road to take on the Oklahoma City Thunder Monday night. It’s time to continue our NBA odds series with a Timberwolves-Thunder prediction and pick. We will also let you know how to watch the game. Here are the Timberwolves-Thunder NBA odds, courtesy of FanDuel.  NBA Odds: Timberwolves-Thunder Odds Minnesota […]

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Inside Peter Wright’s love story with wife Jo with pair rekindling after 13 years when daughter searched for him

PETER WRIGHT and his wife Jo have revealed the remarkable love story behind them becoming darts’ biggest power couple.

The duo split for 13 years after the birth of their first daughter Naomi in 1993.

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Jo Wright, wife of darts player Peter Wright.
The couple have had quite the journey
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They split in 1993 after the birth of their daughter Naomi[/caption]
Jo Wright, wife of darts player Peter 'Snakebite' Wright.
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But they reconciled after a 13-year separation[/caption]

Just under a decade later, the youngster wanted to get in touch with her darting dad and it prompted Jo to search for him on the Professional Darts Corporation website – and then knock on his door out of the blue.

Once reunited, Wright’s career boomed. Their daughter Naomi came up with his multi-coloured mohican hair idea before he played in his first UK Open in 2005.

Hairdresser Jo then continued his wacky designs and has been by his side as a manager throughout his rise to the top of the sport, as one of the most recognisable players of all-time.

Jo revealed on the ‘Tops and Tales’ podcast: “So when I was 18 and Peter was 22, we worked in a holiday camp in Lowestoft called Gunton Hall.

“That’s part of Warners. I was a waitress and Peter worked in the kitchen.

“I found him sitting under a tree when I came out from work one day, kind of waiting for me.

“We had our first daughter in 1993 and then we split up for 13 years. Well, we kind of had like three on-and-off relationships back then.

“We had no contact, nothing. I found him when the daughter was nine on her laptop, she’d been looking for him and searching for him.

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Peter Wright’s daughter found him online during his separation from Joanne
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Naomi is proud as punch of her dad

“So obviously you keep an eye on your kids, especially at nine-years-old, what they’re doing on social media and stuff like that.

“It’s nothing like it is nowadays. It was just, you just Google it online.

“I thought, well, I better go and find him before she did, just in case he doesn’t want to see her and stuff.

“But it took me four years to find him. When I did find him, I had my own salon by then.

“So I was sitting in the salon and I found profiles from the PDC, a picture of him on there and then there was like some details on, a couple of telephone numbers.

“I found the first one, no luck, found the second one, which was actually someone in the PDC office at the time, deleting all the old profiles, which was, he was one of them.

“So if I hadn’t have found him on there that night, I wouldn’t have found him.

“So from there, the lady from the PDC, don’t even know what her name is or who she was, gave me his last known address.

“I went and knocked on the door. And I’m guessing, if you don’t mind me saying, Peter, that was probably the last thing you were expecting.”

Peter replied: “Yes. Just a bit.”

Jo even watched Peter play on TV in the 1995 Lakeside Championship.

He then sported his natural brown hairstyle and even as an Englishman, not a Scot which he later chose as his nation in the PDC due to his mum being from Scotland.

Jo continued: “Well, there was big confusion to go with it all because I was married and Peter had a girlfriend.

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Peter and Joanne Wright had to ditch their respective partners to reunite[/caption]
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Joanne and daughter Naomi regularly cheer on Peter at tournaments

“And a month later, I had no husband and Peter had a new girlfriend – me.

“We knew how good Peter was at darts as well.

“So like getting back together again, and like you think, over all these years.

“Because I actually did watch him at home with my family when he was in the Lakeside, 1995.

“So we were watching him. Even his daughter was like crawling in front of the TV watching him, and we were all talking about him. So that’s as close as we actually saw to him.

“And then when we got together and stuff, it’s like you could have been so much more if we’d have stayed together. You know, he had all the support then as well.

“But he was kind of a bit defiant back in the day. So it was his way or no way.”

Peter added: “Yeah, I think I’m, well, I suppose I think I know everything, but I don’t.

“So we kind of think that although what we’ve done now and what we’ve got, but we missed all them years where we could have had more.

“I could have been challenging Phil Taylor at that time or something like that. I could have been there with Dennis Priestley, Phil Taylor.”

After Wright’s second World Championship win in 2022, just a few days later he walked daughter Naomi down the aisle with the Sid Waddell Trophy proudly placed on the head table.

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France’s ‘worst paedophile ever’ goes on trial as doctor accused of abusing 299 victims & bragging ‘I’m a paedo & proud’

A SICK surgeon accused of sexually abusing 299 patients has gone on trial in what is being dubbed France’s biggest-ever child abuse case.

Depraved Joel Le Scouarnec, alleged to be France’s worst paedophile, took the stands today at the Morbihan Criminal Court in Vannes.

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Former surgeon Joel Le Scouarnec has been accused of sexually abusing 299 people[/caption]
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Most of his victims were minors
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His trial is set to start on 24 February[/caption]

The disgraced doctor has been accused of abusing 299 victims between 1989 and 2004, mostly in hospitals around Brittany, France.

Out of those, 256 were under the age of 15, with the youngest aged one and the oldest aged 70.

His youngest alleged victim is said to be just one year old.

The vile man even kept a sickening diary of his alleged crimes writing that he was a paedophile and “proud of it”.

Le Scouarnec is facing more than 100 rape charges and over 150 sexual assault charges at trial, with the average age of his alleged victims being just 11 years old.

Officials claimed he would carry out some of the attacks when his patients were under anaesthetic and being operated on.

The former surgeon is already serving 15 years behind bars after he was found guilty in 2020 of raping and sexually assaulting four young girls.

Two of these victims were his nieces, one was his neighbour, and the fourth was a former patient of his.

Horrifying evidence discovered in the previous investigation into the paedophile helped lead to his new bombshell four-month trial which began today.

He stopped working at the hospital and was arrested in 2017 when his six-year-old neighbour reported being raped.

She lived next door to Le Scouarnec, and told her parents that ‘the man with a crown of white hair’ had exposed himself and sexually touched her through a broken garden fence.

They went to the cops who then made shocking discoveries at his home, including the repulsive diary where he detailed sexual acts with children.

The monster doctor described himself as an “exhibitionist, voyeur, sadist, masochist, scatologist, fetishist, paedophile”.

Every year on his birthday Le Scouarnec would record his age and write a vile message to himself.

He wrote: “I am a paedophile and I am proud of it.”

His diaries reportedly described the apparent crimes in great detail and without an ounce of regret or empathy.

He also included the children’s names, the date he allegedly abused them, and where it happened.

Le Scouarnec denied these words were a reality and claimed they were just his sick “fantasies”.

MISSED CHANCE

Cops also discovered horrifying child-sized sex dolls, some of them chained up, and over 300,000 child abuse images were discovered.

Worrying questions have been raised after it was revealed a litany of chances to stop the monster were missed.

An FBI warning had alerted the French authorities that the former surgeon had been visiting child abuse websites.

The disgraced surgeon had been convicted of downloading pornographic images of children in 2005.

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He is already serving a 15-year prison sentence for sexually assaulting four children[/caption]
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He allegedly carried out some attacks when his patients were under anaesthetic and being operated on
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Joel Le Scouarnec during his trial at the courthouse in Saintes, France, on 3 March 2020[/caption]

A psychiatrist at the hospital Le Scouarnec was also working raised the alarm and said this conviction should lead to him being kicked out of his job.

It was revealed the French health ministry was made aware of this conviction in 2006 but decided to take no further action.

In June 2008, Le Scouarnec moved to a new hospital in Jonzac, in south-west France, and told the director he was being investigated.

This was disregarded and the monster worked there until he retired in 2017.

His alleged sexual abuse is said to have driven some patients to take their own lives, sparked drug and alcohol dependency in others and destroyed relationships.

‘Beast of Avignon’ - France's worst mass rape case

IT is one of the worst cases of sexual abuse that rocked France.

Gisèle Pélicot, 72, was repeatedly drugged over a decade by her pensioner husband Dominique Pélicot so dozens of men could rape her.

Psychologists described Mr Pélicot as a “Jekyll and Hyde” character who appeared like a normal husband during the day and then drugged his wife so strangers could rape her at night.

They described him as having a split personality.

Mr Pélicot said of the comments: “I am accused of many things. We are not born perverts, we become them.

“Even if it is paradoxical, I have never considered my wife as an object.”

A report submitted to the court suggested Mr Pélicot displayed a tendency towards “paraphilia” –  sexual arousal in atypical situations – and also “somnophilia”– an attraction to unconscious partners.

This made him a “very caring and much-loved husband by day” but “a rapist at night”, psychologist Bruno Daunizeau explained in the report.

The court heard how Mr Pélicot considered himself a “good husband” to the woman he married in 1971 and had three children with.

He said he was “respectful of his wife’s desires and refusals to sex”, but “also had fantasies about swinging” and “got pleasure” in seeing his wife “undergo sexual acts that she normally refused”.

The sick grandfather admitted to the heinous mass rape of Ms Pélicot that stretched for almost a decade.

Dominique, dubbed the Devil of Avignon, wept as he was found guilty on all charges of aggravated rape, attempted aggravated rape and taking indecent images of women including his daughter Caroline in court.

Heroic Gisèle Pelicot told the press that she wanted to be open about the hellish struggle of the years-long abuse by her ex-husband for her children’s sake.

The victims and their families want the authorities, who they say should have stopped him earlier, to answer for the scandal.

Shortly after Le Scouarnec appeared in the dock, a spokesman for the departmental council of the Morbihan Medical Association told the court: “Joël Le Scouarnec has seriously brought the profession into disrepute.”

Thibaut Kurzawa, Le Scouarnec’s defence lawyer, said outside court: “He is waiting to be judged, to express himself, to say what he has to say to each of his victims.

“From the beginning he’s been ready to confront reality, to accept his responsibility.”

The Le Scouarnec trial continues and is expected to conclude in June.

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His trial will take place at a courthouse in Vannes, France[/caption]

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Best Erik Karlsson landing spots before 2025 NHL trade deadline

At one point this season, the Pittsburgh Penguins were frustrated with defenseman Erik Karlsson. Pittsburgh was not playing well on the ice and appeared destined for a poor season. And while Karlsson’s offense was solid as always, his defense was extremely brutal, to put it nicely. There were no concrete reports of either side seeking […]

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WWE legend pokes fun at Nia Jax botch in NSFW video

Following their confrontation on Friday Night SmackDown, WWE Hall of Famer Trish Stratus made fun of former Women’s Champion Nia Jax‘s latest botch. Stratus posted a video on X, formerly Twitter, of Jax hitting an Annihilator on her. It is edited better than when it happened live, as Jax appears to hit Stratus with more […]

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