1 week agoLatest NewsComments Off on My teen son fell 200ft to his death on Scouts holiday – they tried to pin the blame on him… we were powerless
THE mum of a teenager who died on a Scouts holiday has claimed the association are “still not facing the facts” over his death.
Ben Leonard, 16, suffered a serious head injury when he fell about 200ft at Great Orme in Llandudno, North Wales.
Ben Leonard, 16, suffered a serious head injury when he fell about 200ft[/caption]
He died while on a trip with the Reddish Explorer Scouts from Stockport, Greater Manchester, on August 26, 2018.
Ben and two friends took a different path from other Scouts, unsupervised by any Scout leaders, who had “lost” the trio on the Orme.
Ben ended up on a 50cm ledge, which was an animal track, when he lost his footing, slipped and fell to his death.
Following a two-month inquest last year at Manchester Civil Courts of Justice, a jury found Ben was unlawfully killed by the most senior Scout leader on the trip, and an assistant Scout leader, and this was contributed to by neglect by The Scout Association.
The law prevents inquest juries from naming any individual in conclusions.
During the inquest, the Scout leader on the trip, Sean Glaister, declined to answer a series of questions from Ben Richmond KC, lawyer for Fieldfisher, the law firm representing Ben’s family.
Mary Carr was named as the assistant Scout leader on the trip.
David Pojur, assistant coroner for North Wales east and central, referred The Scout Association and an employee, who cannot be named by court order, to North Wales Police to investigate for conspiracy to pervert the course of justice.
But after the inquest, Mr Glaister and Ms Carr applied for a judicial review of the inquest findings of unlawful killing, heard at the High Court in Manchester in December.
On Thursday, Mr Justice Fordham ruled the coroner Mr Pojur had directed the jury fairly and correctly and rejected the appeal to review the inquest findings.
Ben’s mother, Jackie Leonard said: “We are just relieved it is now over and the judicial review failed.
“We need to try to move forward now but with Ben in our hearts always.”
At the beginning of the inquest last year, the third after two previous inquests were aborted, The Scout Association for the first time publicly apologised and accepted responsibility for Ben’s death.
The inquest also heard Ben’s family were lied to as The Scout Association was worried about “reputational damage”.
Ben’s family were told “people who try and take on the Scouts are never successful” and that “no-one can touch the Scouts”.
Ben’s mum Jackie told the Manchester Evening News the Scout leaders on the trip “don’t think they’ve done anything wrong”.
She said: “When they brought the review last year, we weren’t surprised the outcome was being challenged.
“They just don’t think they’ve done anything wrong, even now.
“It upsets me because they aren’t facing the facts that their actions led to his death. Even after the conclusion they were still adamant.”
Around 500,000 young people and 145,000 adult volunteers take part in Scouting projects and activities each week, according to the association’s own figures.
He died while on a trip with the Reddish Explorer Scouts from Stockport, Greater Manchester, on August 26 2018.[/caption]
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Lowry found the cup from an admittedly short 106 yards out[/caption]
Wendy and Shane have been married since 2016 and have two daughters named Iris and Ivy[/caption]
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That was swiftly imitated by Lowry on the 7th.
Somewhat surprisingly, that was only the third ace of McIlroy’s career with Lowry now also sitting on that same all-time total.
Both men were naturally in buoyant mood after completing their opening rounds on Thursday.
On Twitter, Shane shared fan footage of his highlight with the caption: “These lads enjoyed my hole-in-one more than me!”
Meanwhile the four-time major winner posted a photo of a couple of complimentary beers that they were treated to by tournament organisers.
1 week agoLatest NewsComments Off on I left my husband over his ‘affair’ with his SISTER – she sends him Valentines gifts & creeps round him in knickers
A WIFE left her husband over his ‘affair’ with his SISTER after discovering that she had sent him Valentine’s gifts.
The 43-year-old woman revealed that the uncomfortable situation – which included the sister walking around in her underwear – ultimately led to the end of her marriage.
A wife shared her story of what she believes to be infidelity[/caption]
The woman explained that even before they got married, there was a sense that “something was off” between her husband and his sister, but she couldn’t be certain.
Now, taking to the online forum Reddit, the woman, who has chosen to remain anonymous, is desperately seeking advice and asking others for their thoughts on the situation.
She explained that she dated her husband for two months, maintained a long-distance relationship for “about a year,” and then spent another year together in person before they got engaged.
The sister lived a few hours away at her husband’s parents’ house, and the woman had only visited his family a “handful of times” before their marriage.
Talking about the sister, the woman wrote: “She openly hated me – glaring at me across the room – and her jealousy was obvious.
“If my then-boyfriend put his arm around me, she would get up and leave the room in a huff.”
However, things became stranger when she realised her boyfriend wasn’t spending time with her and would even spend Valentine’s Day with his sister instead of logging on to a video chat with her.
She explained: “He didn’t log on to our video chat until very late – later than promised, almost midnight – and told me it had been ‘special’ to spend the day with someone who meant something special to him.
“When we were engaged, he told me he wanted me to plan and celebrate his birthday together with her.
“However, she then planned it alone, ignoring my attempts to collaborate, and didn’t invite me.
“He invited me at the last minute and told me to just ignore what she had done, to go easy on her and give her the benefit of the doubt instead of standing up to her and telling her not to treat me that way.
“He also frequently commented on her appearance, saying her legs were nice, that she wore just the right amount of makeup, that she was pretty, etc.
“He talked about her a lot when we were together. When he was around her, he often linked arms with her in my presence and even kneed her in the bum, which I found odd.”
The woman believed he had an “unhealthy relationship” with his sister and that “he wasn’t available to form his own family unit.”
He told me they had done many weekend B&B stays, hikes, and mountain-biking trips together before he and I were married
Reddit user
She decided to “unofficially end” the relationship and asked for space, but he reassured her that it was “nothing to worry about” before proposing to her and getting engaged.
The pair attended premarital counselling, during which her husband told her everything “she wanted to hear.”
However, after the marriage, there were “so many ways he broke” promises, and it seemed as though he was having an “emotional affair with his sister.”
She continued: “He even asked me if he could plan a weekend stay at a bed and breakfast with her (I said no).
“He told me they had done many weekend B&B stays, hikes, and mountain-biking trips together before he and I were married.
“He had her with us when he carried me over the threshold into our new home. He still chose her to plan and celebrate his birthday after we were married, telling me I could only ‘help her.’
He said she then removed the towel to show off a new bikini
Reddit user
“He gave her one of our cars without asking me. I checked his texts for a while, and he had sent her romantic, longing-gaze pictures of himself on an aeroplane, asking her to pick him up (while telling me he didn’t need me to).
“He invited her to the theatre after work without telling me, and he gave her gifts – often in secret – that I only found out about when I asked.
“For example, he would buy her surprise perfume whenever he bought me a gift. She rejected gifts from both of us and demanded they be returned, saying he should choose something on his own to give to her privately (e.g. for Christmas).
“When we visited her parents, she walked around in a t-shirt and underwear.
Four red flags your partner is cheating
Private Investigator Aaron Bond from BondRees revealed four warning signs your partner might be cheating.
They start to take their phone everywhere with them
In close relationships, it’s normal to know each other’s passwords and use each other’s phones, if their phone habits change then they may be hiding something.
Aaron says: “If your partner starts changing their passwords, starts taking their phone everywhere with them, even around the house or they become defensive when you ask to use their phone it could be a sign of them not being faithful.”
“You should also look at how they place their phone down when not in use. If they face the phone with the screen facing down, then they could be hiding something.”
They start telling you less about their day
When partners cheat they can start to avoid you, this could be down to them feeling guilty or because it makes it easier for them to lie to you.
“If you feel like your partner has suddenly begun to avoid you and they don’t want to do things with you any more or they stop telling you about their day then this is another red flag.”
“Partners often avoid their spouses or tell them less about their day because cheating can be tough, remembering all of your lies is impossible and it’s an easy way to get caught out,” says Aaron.
Their libido changes
Your partner’s libido can change for a range of reasons so it may not be a sure sign of cheating but it can be a red flag according to Aaron.
Aaron says: “Cheaters often have less sex at home because they are cheating, but on occasions, they may also have more sex at home, this is because they feel guilty and use this increase in sex to hide their cheating. You may also find that your partner will start to introduce new things into your sex life that weren’t there before.”
They become negative towards you
Cheaters know that cheating is wrong and to them, it will feel good, this can cause tension and anxiety within themselves which they will need to justify.
“To get rid of the tension they feel inside they will try to convince themselves that you are the problem and they will become critical of you out of nowhere. Maybe you haven’t walked the dog that day, put the dishes away or read a book to your children before bedtime. A small problem like this can now feel like a big deal and if you experience this your partner could be cheating,” warns Aaron.
“She also came into our hotel room once when we were all staying in a hotel, wrapped only in a towel, and asked in front of me if he could come into the bathroom with her.
“He said she then removed the towel to show off a new bikini. He came out and asked me to give him a h**dj*b almost immediately after she left.
“She sometimes sends him valentines even now, and I know they have regular FaceTimes and meet ups when she is in town.
“I have talked to him so much about this. I don’t mind a brother hanging out or catching up with or giving gifts to a sister, but so many times, she has stepped into spouse territory and he has told me ‘blood is thicker than water’.
The wife is now in an uncomfortable position and is desperately seeking advice[/caption]
“There has been so much gaslighting and meeting up behind my back – even when I have said ‘I don’t mind if you catch up for coffee’.
“There is so much more detail I could share. It just feels like he hides an affair (even if they have never had s*x) and feels like ‘another woman’ is in the marriage.
“I don’t know if it’s just dysfunction or infidelity. I wonder what others think.”
Her post gained a lot of attention with many other Reddit users rushing to the comments section to share their thoughts.
Your man and his sister’s relationship is weird. He is not changing and the marriage is not going to change
Reddit comment
One wrote: “My ex-bf cheated on me with his sister. It happens. It’s disgusting and I recommend walking away.
“Not just because of how nasty the whole thing is, but your husband is consistently showing he doesn’t prioritize you or your feelings. That’s the biggest red flag to me.”
Another added: “I’m not trying to be mean when I say this I’m saying this with love. Girl you should’ve left a long ass time ago.
“Your man and his sister’s relationship is weird. He is not changing and the marriage is not going to change.
“He is going to continue to disrespect you and your boundaries. You better leave before it’s too late.”
15 Relationship red flags to look out for
Red flags are warning signs that indicate unhealthy or manipulative behaviour. When you encounter relationship red flags, it’s a good time to pause and reflect on the dynamic you really share with that person.
Overly controlling behaviour
Lack of trust
Feeling low self-esteem
Physical, emotional, or mental abuse
Substance abuse
Narcissism
Anger management issues
Codependency
Inability to resolve conflict
Constant jealousy
Gaslighting
Lack of emotional intelligence
Negatively affecting your relationship with family and friends
Inability to communicate openly
Lack of social connection or friends
For more advice and support, Relate is available: “Whether it’s your relationship with a partner, a child, a family member or anyone else – we help everyone to build better relationships.”
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You can pick up packs of croissants – including chocolate and hazelnut varieties – for just 79p, and there’s also a wide selection of doughnuts available.
Whether you’re a fan of plain doughnuts, sprinkle-topped doughnuts, or indulgent chocolate ones, there’s something for everyone – and they’re only £1.09 for a pack of four.
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1 week agoLatest NewsComments Off on Як швидко очистити духовку від нагару: ефективні методи та лайфхаки
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1 week agoLatest NewsComments Off on I’m trolled for being a sugar baby but I make £2k in no time – the tips roll in & I never have to leave the house
WHAT if you could boost your balance without ever having to leave your home or working?
With many cash-strapped Brits looking for easy ways to rake in some extra cash, one woman has revealed how she makes thousands as an online sugar baby.
Asugar babytends to be a younger man or woman who wants to live aluxury lifestyle, but can’t afford it with their own finances – which is where the sugar ‘daddy’ (or ‘mommy’) steps in, as they’re typically loaded.
One such person who’s making a fortune with this arrangement is TikToker Jess who uses her ”pretty privilege” to attract men who want to spend on her.
According to the young beauty, she used to be ”the broke one” in her group of friends – however, now the tables have turned and she uses the cash to go on luxury solo trips around the world.
Jess, who calls herself ”spoiled princess”, she started chatting online with the wealthy blokes as a side hustle – but it’s since become a full 9-5 job.
The woman, who chats with the rich men on a site called Private Sugar Club, revealed that she’s never met any of them in person and they’ll happily pay for her ”lifestyle”.
In Jess’ eyes, ”love” doesn’t exist and she much rather prefers men showering her with money and ”making bread” – and ”dating broke men should be illegal”.
The stunner is even willing to rinse some of her sugar daddies completely dry, with one man recently transferring her the very last of his funds.
”Queen, I only have $305.98 left in my account. I want to send Queen but can it please wait? I get paid on the 1st,” the Romeo wrote via text.
Jess wasn’t having any of it, as she replied: ”Send all of it today. I control your money and send the same amount on the 1st.”
The luxe lifestyle lover also revealed that she will never accept a sugar daddy paying her $100 (£80) a week as an allowance.
While she does ”appreciate the offer”, Jess insisted that the sum ”doesn’t quite reflect the value” she brings – or what she’s after.
The young woman was having an exceptionally high earnings during the festive season when numerous sugar daddies were constantly tipping her on the platform.
The amounts, she shared in a viral clip, ranged from £40 to a whopping £2,000 by an eager fan.
What is a sugar daddy and how does the relationship work?
A sugar daddy is a generous older man who spends lavishly on his mistress, girlfriend or boyfriend.
He’s often a businessman, who considers himself too busy for conventional dating – and isn’t short of a few bob.
A sugar baby, meanwhile, is normally an attractive younger woman who can’t afford her luxury lifestyle.
The couple will usually establish a financial agreement early on – as well as their boundaries, such as whether or not they’re considering a sexual relationship.
Some sugar babies ask for a monthly allowance, while other get ‘expenses’ in the form of glam holidays and shopping sprees.
While a growing number of sugar babies are university students, who turn to their ‘daddy’ to pay their fees.
‘Need an income’
Close to 200 social media users flocked to the comments, with many confessing they were keen to give the site a go too.
One wondered: ”how can I start too. need an income.”
Someone else chimed in: ”Don’t give me any funny ideas.”
”Get the bag sis, no more shaming please. My sisters need to stay rich,” a third said.
However, not everyone was as impressed, with one critic writing: ”Not all money is good money.”
Is a sugar baby relationship safe?
Those behind sugar daddy sites like Seeking Arrangement, What’s Your Price, Sugar Daddie and Rich Meet Beautiful insist it is safe.
One concern is that the sugar babies can be asked to meet at their daddy’s home or a hotel room.
While others involved may worry that a man, having not only paid for the dates but extra expenses as well, would be more likely to expect sex.
There are some risks involved, and a sugar baby needs to be clear on their boundaries before entering into a relationship.
Sugar babies should only meet in public places when sex is off the table.
1 week agoLatest NewsComments Off on I’m a mum of nine and despite what trolls say I DO know about contraception – I buy 640 nappies and 40L of milk a week
A MUM-OF-NINE shared an insight into everyday life in her large family.
She also clapped back at haters who criticise her for having so many children.
In her viral video, TikTok user Maxine (@thefamilyyoung) revealed some of the comments her family gets from strangers on a regular basis.
She and her husband Jake married in 2016 and within a year they had four children living under their roof.
“Yes, I do know what birth control is,” the TikToker told her audience.
In fact, the mum has only been pregnant twice, once with quadruplets.
She gave birth to her son Henry in October 2018 with Silas, Cecelia, Beck, and Theo arriving in July 2020.
However, before having their biological children, the couple welcome three children on emergency placement from foster care.
Aiden, who was four at the time, and his siblings Parker, then aged two, and Connor, who was 11 months, joined the family in July 2017.
A month later, Jake and Maxine received a call about their newborn sister Elliott and collected her directly from the hospital.
The four children were officially adopted into the family in December 2019.
With nine kids in their home, the couple have developed a steadfast grocery plan.
They revealed that they buy nappies in packs of 640 at a time, going through at least 20 each day.
The family also fork out for 40 litres of milk and 40 loaves of bread each week.
In between grocery shopping and minding their kids, they also carry out two full loads of laundry each day.
Despite the expensive lifestyle, the family have managed to visit 14 countries with their children.
Both Jake and Maxine described themselves as “the luckiest people in the world.”
The world's biggest families
The Vassilyev family
This family currently holds the record for the most children a couple has parented, after the matriarch gave birth to 69 children, including 16 pairs of twins and seven sets of triplets.
Mrs. Vassilyev has given birth to a total of 69 children, including 16 pairs of twins and 7 sets of triplets. 67 of the 69 children survived infancy.
The Radfords
Sue and Noel are parents to 22 children, and their hectic family life is documented in reality show 22 Kids and Counting.
The pair have remained adamant that they won’t be having any more kids, but the amount of grandchildren they have is ever expanding, with daughters Sophie and Millie both mums of three.
The Duggars
Michelle and Jim Bob Duggar have 19 children – 10 sons and nine daughters.
All of their children’s names begin with the letter J.
They also had their own reality show in the United States, and became household names because of it.
The Bates family
Kelly also has 19 children, with her husband Gil Bates.
Of 19 deliveries, 14 of them were natural.
The couple also have 28 grandchildren, with four more on the way.
The Dougherty Dozen
Mum Alicia frequently shares videos and pictures of her family.
She and husband Josh have four biological children together, as well as adopting or fostering the rest of their brood.
The Rosario family
Yalancia and husband Michael are parents of 11.
They had their first daughter together earlier this year, and are also parents to Jamel, 15, Michael Jr, 11, Angelo, 10, Gimani, seven, Armani, six, Sincere, three and Khaza, two.
Their fourth son, also named Armani, was stillborn.
TikTok users shared their thoughts on the situation in the comments section.
“My worst nightmare, I couldn’t do it. But kudos to you,” wrote one viewer.
“I am a parent of one kid and I am dying, you guys are heroes,” said another follower.
“I’m a parent of three children and people treat me like I have nine,” joked a third person.
“She’s a very strong woman, I admire that,” commented another TikTok user.
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