90 Day Fiancé‘s Shawn Finch has made a few valid points about his sexual preference in his confessionals, but I still think he’s mostly at fault for the dynamic he’s in with his fiancé. Shawn has been dating Alliya Batista for a few years now. When they first met, 90 Day Fiancé franchise star Shawn identified himself as mostly gay and, at the time, Alliya was known as Douglass.